We read 15 AI girlfriend privacy policies. Here's who trains on your chats
0 of 15 recorded policies explicitly rule out training on your chats.
What the policies actually answer
15 sets of policies, terms and help pages read on 30 September 2026. Select the checks that matter to you; open a row to read the supporting notes.
What matters to you?
- Checks your age properly
- Partly A confirmation gate for everyone; verification if flagged or on request.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- No Lists training and improving its AI models as a use of your data.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Clear No sale, and no cross-site ad sharing without consent.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Clear Chat history deleted immediately with the account.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- Partly EU/UK 14 days, billing errors within 30 days. Crypto and Moments final.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Clear Appears as S LABS INC.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Partly A removal process for content resembling a real person.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Clear Privacy policy updated 10 April 2026.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly Mentions third-party age estimation or ID checks, not who gets asked.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- No Uses your interactions to train and develop its models. No opt-out.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Clear Won't sell, trade or transfer your data without consent.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- No Email support to delete. Otherwise kept three years after last activity.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- Clear 24 hours if you've used 20 tokens or fewer, plus EU/UK 14 days.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Clear The payment page says the charge appears as EverAI on your bank statement.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Not said The terms don't mention real people or celebrities.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Clear Privacy notice updated 30 July 2026.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly May ask for proof of age at any time.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not stated. Chats are encrypted so staff can't read them normally.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Clear Won't sell or share personal data; hasn't in the past 12 months.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Clear Chats and media kept only until you delete the Kindroid or account.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- Partly Case by case. Disputing a charge can get you banned.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Not said No specific rule on real people.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Clear Legal page updated 29 August 2026.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly An age check where the law requires one.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not stated.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Partly Doesn't sell data; lists analytics and advertising providers.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Clear Self-serve and immediate; cancel any subscription first.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- No Only where the law requires or a technical error stopped delivery.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Clear Bans real, identifiable people, public figures included.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Clear Privacy policy updated 16 September 2026.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly A third-party age assurance provider, where the law requires a check.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- No Lists training its AI and machine learning models as a use of your data.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Partly No advertising yet, per the policy, but it may share data with ad partners in future.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Partly The deletion guide says generations, unpublished characters and chat history are deleted within 24 to 48 hours. Broader retention exceptions were not re-audited.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- Partly Case by case within 14 days, plus the EU/UK withdrawal right. Crypto is final.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Clear Bans content resembling real people, including celebrities.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Clear Privacy policy last modified 26 August 2026.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly Self-declared; a live-selfie age estimate where the law requires it.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- No Chats and creations train its adult-content models.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- No "Sells" identifiers and activity to adult ad providers, as US state law defines it.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Partly Email support; retention "as long as required".
- Gives you a way to get money back
- Partly Errors, failures or where the law requires, within 60 days.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Clear Bans content based on identifiable real people.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Clear Privacy policy updated 27 November 2025.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly Confirmed at sign-up; proof may be requested any time.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not stated.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Clear Doesn't sell personal information; names Google Analytics.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Partly By email within 30 days; chat logs kept up to two years.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- No All payments final.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Partly No image uploads at all; no explicit rule on real people.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- No Privacy policy updated 2 March 2025.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly k-ID selfie or ID check in the UK, Australia and Brazil.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Unread The help centre pages we read don't cover this.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Unread As above.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Clear Self-serve in Settings. Posts, characters and personas are permanently removed.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- Partly Generally non-refundable, except where the law requires.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Web payments go through Stripe; the descriptor isn't stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Unread The help centre pages we read don't cover this.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Unread Couldn't see a date.
- Checks your age properly
- Not said The terms require 18+ but don't describe a check.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not stated.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Clear Won't sell, trade or transfer your data without consent.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- No Usually kept six years after you stop being a user.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- No All digital sales final.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Partly Payments processed by SNB Technologies LTD.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Not said Not mentioned in the terms.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- No Privacy policy dated 2 May 2023.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly Public pages state 18+; no identity or age-assurance process tested.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not established by current public-page checks.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Not said Current privacy policy did not return readable text; previous advertising wording not reverified.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Not said Help pages describe content privacy controls; exact account-deletion process not reverified.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- Partly Chips are described as non-refundable; current full subscription refund terms not reverified.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Partly Membership guide advertises neutral statement descriptions, without naming the exact descriptor.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Partly Moderation guide requires verified consent for identifiable people; reference uploads are now described publicly.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Not said Current privacy and terms revision dates could not be reverified.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly UK users need to verify for some features; the method isn't given.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not stated. Staff review chats only when you report a problem.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Not said Not stated.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Partly Email request; kept "as long as necessary".
- Gives you a way to get money back
- No Non-refundable unless consumer law requires it.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Partly Prohibits deceptive or harmful real-person impersonation and privacy violations; wording is not a blanket likeness ban.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Not said No date on the privacy policy.
- Checks your age properly
- Unread Links a UK users notice we didn't open for this site.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not stated.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Not said Not stated.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Partly Erasure by email request.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- No No refunds unless consumer law requires one.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Partly Bans impersonating real people "in a deceptive or harmful manner".
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Not said No date on the privacy policy.
- Checks your age properly
- No Public entry overlay asks for an over-18 confirmation; no stronger check was observed.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not stated.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- No Uses contact, identity and device data for online advertising with third parties.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Partly Privacy requests go by email to support.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- Partly Request within 24 hours only if no chat, media, voice or coin feature has been used.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated in the privacy policy.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Unread Community guidelines not read for this pass.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- No Privacy policy still dated 31 July 2025 when read on 17 October 2026.
- Checks your age properly
- Partly Says it collects age verification documents; the entry gate is a click-through.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said Not stated.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Partly Shares with email marketing; cookies used for "relevant ads".
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Not said No deletion process or retention period given.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- No No refund for the current period.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Not said The terms don't mention real people.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- Not said No date on the privacy policy.
- Checks your age properly
- Unread Not in the privacy policy; terms not read for this pass.
- Keeps your chats out of AI training
- Not said The policy never mentions chats.
- Doesn't sell or share your data for ads
- Partly May share with business partners for products and promotions.
- Deleting your account wipes your chats
- Partly You can ask for deletion; some data may be deletable in the app.
- Gives you a way to get money back
- No Non-refundable once used; no part-month credits; crypto final.
- Says what shows on your bank statement
- Not said Not stated.
- Bans lookalikes of real people
- Unread Community guidelines not read for this pass.
- Privacy policy updated in the past year
- No Privacy policy last updated 4 May 2023.
Mint is a clear answer, paper partly, rose no, and dashed means the policy is silent or unread. Policies change, so every review page shows the date we read it.
Clear answers / 8 checks
- Secrets AI
- 4/8
- Candy AI
- 4/8
- Kindroid
- 3/8
Policy review · 30 Sep 2026
Answers on paper, not a safety rating.
Your AI girlfriend remembers everything you tell her. That's the whole appeal. The question nobody asks at sign-up is who else gets to remember it.
So on 30 September 2026 we read the fine print of the 15 AI girlfriend and companion sites people search for most: privacy policies, terms, refund rules and help pages. These are the sites behind questions like is Candy AI safe, is SpicyChat safe and is Janitor AI safe. This is what each company has put in writing, and where it says nothing at all.
- Promise to keep your chats out of AI training
- 0 of 15
- Four say outright that they use them
- Wipe your chats when you delete the account
- 4 of 15
- Janitor AI, Kindroid, Nastia and Secrets AI
- Tell you what shows on your bank statement
- 1 of 15
- Secrets AI: S LABS INC
- Have a privacy policy over a year old
- 5 of 15
- Three more carry no date at all
The scoreboard
Eight questions every adult AI site should answer in writing, and how each one did. Tick what matters to you and the apps re-rank. Tap any app for what its policy actually says.
Return to the opening comparison or tool.
Secrets AI comes out on top with four clear answers out of eight, ahead of Candy AI, Kindroid and Nastia on three each. Five apps don't give a single clear answer: eHentai.ai, Fantasy.ai, JuicyChat, Sexy.ai and SpicyChat. That doesn't make them dodgy. It means you're trusting the company rather than the paperwork, so act like it.
Nobody promises your chats stay out of training
This is the big one, and the answer is bleak. Not one of the 15 policies says your conversations are kept out of AI training.
Four say the opposite, plainly:
- OurDream AI lists training its AI and machine learning models among the uses of your data, with no opt-out.
- Candy AI uses your interactions to train and develop its models, with no opt-out.
- Crushi AI goes furthest: your chats and anything you create train its adult-content models, and there's no opt-out.
- Secrets AI lists training and improving its AI models among the uses of your data.
Ten more are simply silent. The closest thing to a privacy promise comes from Kindroid, which says chats are encrypted at rest and in transit, so staff can't read them in normal operation. It still doesn't say whether they train anything. That leaves Janitor AI, whose help centre doesn't say either way.
Our take: write to an AI girlfriend the way you'd write a postcard. Flirty, filthy even, but nothing you'd hate to hear quoted back by the next model.
Who's sharing with advertisers
The good news first. Five say they won't sell your data or share it for advertising: Candy AI, Kindroid, Kupid AI, Secrets AI and SecretCrush. Kindroid adds that it hasn't in the past 12 months, which is exactly the kind of specific we like.
Two do the opposite. JuicyChat uses your contact, identity and device data for online advertising with third-party partners who can build a profile of you. Crushi AI says it "sells" identifiers, device activity and rough location to adult advertising providers, in the legal sense some US states use, with no money changing hands.
The rest sit in between. OurDream AI runs no ads yet but may share with ad partners in future. Lovescape never sells your data but uses it to target content and ads. Nastia doesn't sell, but lists advertising providers. SpicyChat may share with business partners for promotions, and Sexy.ai uses cookies for "relevant ads".
How long they remember you after you leave
Kupid keeps data for six years after you stop being a user. Candy keeps account data three years after your last activity unless you ask for deletion. SecretCrush keeps conversation logs for up to two years. Secrets AI keeps payment records for seven years for tax, which is normal.
Kupid AI is the one that made us wince. Six years is a long time for a sexting app to remember you, and its privacy policy dates from May 2023. Candy AI's three years only applies if you don't ask, so ask: email support when you leave.
Deleting is something you can do yourself on Janitor AI, Kindroid, Nastia and OurDream AI. Almost everywhere else it means an email to support: Candy AI, Crushi AI, Fantasy.ai, eHentai.ai, JuicyChat, Lovescape and SecretCrush.
Refunds, chargebacks and your bank statement
Only one app has a refund window worth the name. Candy AI gives your money back within 24 hours of paying, as long as you've used 20 tokens or fewer, and UK and EU buyers get the 14-day withdrawal right on top. Eight others are effectively final sale unless the law forces a refund.
Three clauses worth knowing before you pay:
- Kindroid reserves the right to permanently ban you for disputing a charge with your bank. Talk to support first.
- Fantasy.ai and eHentai.ai, run by the same Romanian company, reserve the right to apply a $1.99 monthly "maintenance charge" to keep previously purchased accounts active. Check your statement after you stop paying.
- Crypto is final at OurDream AI, Secrets AI and SpicyChat.
As for discretion, Secrets AI is the only one of the 15 that tells you what shows on your statement: S LABS INC. Kupid AI names its payment company, SNB Technologies LTD, which is a fair guess. The other thirteen don't say. Look for it at checkout before you pay, and if it isn't there, that's an answer too.
Age checks and real people
None of the 15 checks everyone's age with an ID or a face scan. Most only check where the law makes them, like Janitor AI, which uses k-ID in the UK, Australia and Brazil. JuicyChat's whole age check is an "I am over 18" button.
Rules on real people are better, if patchy. OurDream AI, Crushi AI, Lovescape and Nastia explicitly ban content resembling real, identifiable people, celebrities included. Lovescape won't take photo uploads beyond a moderated avatar, and SecretCrush takes no image uploads at all. Candy AI, Kindroid, Kupid AI and Sexy.ai don't mention real people in their terms. Our listing policy leaves out tools built to sexualise real people, whatever their terms say.
Which one we'd pick, by worry
Kindroid
Chats are encrypted at rest and in transit, so staff can't read them in normal operation, and it won't sell or share your data. It doesn't say whether chats train its models, but none of the 15 promises that.
Read the Kindroid reviewSecrets AI
The only one of the 15 that names what shows on your statement: S LABS INC. It takes crypto and prepaid cards, and deleting the account takes your chat history with it.
Read the Secrets AI reviewNastia
Delete it yourself in Settings and it's immediate: companions, chats, images and videos. Cancel any subscription first, because you can't delete while one is running.
Read the Nastia reviewCandy AI
The only real refund window we found: 24 hours, if you've used 20 tokens or fewer. Just know it trains on your chats and keeps account data for three years unless you ask it not to.
Read the Candy AI reviewIf you'd rather your AI girlfriend kept your secrets, Kindroid and Nastia are where we'd start.
Who can read your chats?
It's the question behind searches from "does Janitor AI read your chats" to "are SpicyChat chats private". The honest answer for almost any service: your messages sit on its servers, so the company can technically get at them. What varies is what it says it does with them. Three things decide it:
- Staff access. Does the policy say when employees or contractors can view conversations, for moderation, safety reports or a support ticket you opened?
- Training. Are chats used to improve the AI, and is there an opt-out? On the evidence above, assume yes.
- Bot creators. On community libraries, whether the person who made a character can see your conversation depends on the site. And a chat set to shared or public is exactly that.
If the policy doesn't answer, assume a person could read it one day and write accordingly.
Does Janitor AI read your chats?
Janitor AI gets this question more than any other site, partly because of how it works: a community library of bots made by strangers, often running on an AI model you've plugged in yourself. That puts more parties in the room than you'd think.
- You
- Everything, for as long as the chat is kept.
- The bot's creator
- Counts, such as how many chats and messages the bot has had. Not the text of your conversation.
- Janitor AI's team
- The chat is stored on its servers, and moderators can look at one when a bot or chat is reported or flagged.
- Your proxy provider
- If you've plugged in another model through the proxy settings, every message goes to that provider too, under its own privacy rules.
- Everyone else
- Nobody, unless you share or publish the chat.
From user and reviewer reports; Janitor AI's own help pages are the final word, so check them before you share anything personal.
The proxy row is the one people forget. Bring your own model through DeepSeek or another API service (our Janitor AI help guide walks through the setup) and your roleplay goes to a second company whose terms you've probably never read. So can Janitor AI creators see your chats? No. Can somebody, somewhere, read them? Possibly, and that's true of every site that keeps your history.
Ten minutes on day one, and a clean exit
None of this is about having something to hide. It's about choosing who gets to know what. Sign up with an email address you keep for apps and subscriptions, not your main inbox, so the receipts and the "she misses you" emails land somewhere that doesn't lead anywhere that matters. Pay with a card your bank can step in on, or a prepaid or virtual card that caps what a site can ever take, and check whether that "monthly" price is really one yearly lump.
When you're done with a site, don't just delete the app and hope. Cancel from inside your account and screenshot the confirmation, cancel a yearly plan before the renewal date rather than after, and delete your chats and images if you're not coming back. If a site makes any of that hard, let us know. It counts against them the next time we rank.
How we read them
We read each site's own privacy policy, terms, refund and membership policies and help pages on 30 September 2026. Not said means the policy is silent. Unread means that page wasn't in what we read. This is what the apps promise in writing. Policies change, so every review page shows the date we read it. To judge an app we haven't covered, our guide to what makes a good AI adult site has the checks, and AI porn forums are where to ask people who use them.
Discover AI Porn (2026). We read 15 AI girlfriend privacy policies. Here's who trains on your chats. Published 13 October 2026; policies read 30 September 2026. https://www.discoveraiporn.com/blog/are-ai-girlfriend-apps-safe
Each app's own privacy policy, terms, refund and membership policies and help pages, read on 30 September 2026 against eight checks. The CSV has every answer beside the policy's own wording, and links each app to its full review.
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Questions people ask
Are AI girlfriend apps safe?
Safe enough if you go in knowing the trade-offs. Of the 15 privacy policies we read on 30 September 2026, none promises to keep your chats out of AI training and four say they use them. Two use your data for advertising, deleting often means emailing support, and five policies are more than a year old. Use a separate email and keep identifying details out of your chats.
Do AI girlfriend apps train on your chats?
Four of the 15 we read say so outright: OurDream AI, Candy AI, Crushi AI and Secrets AI. None of the 15 promises not to. Kindroid says chats are encrypted so staff can't read them in normal operation, but it doesn't address training either.
Which AI girlfriend app is best for privacy?
On paper, Secrets AI, with four of our eight checks clear, including naming its bank statement descriptor. Kindroid, Nastia and Candy AI follow with three each. Kindroid encrypts chats and won't sell your data; Nastia lets you delete everything instantly from Settings.
Can I delete my AI girlfriend chats?
On Janitor AI, Kindroid, Nastia and OurDream AI you can delete from your account. Most of the others need an email to support. Candy AI keeps account data for three years after your last activity unless you ask, and Kupid AI says it usually keeps data for six years.
Can AI chat sites read your chats?
Usually they can, technically, because your messages sit on their servers. The privacy policy should say when staff view conversations, whether chats train the AI and how to delete them. On community sites, check what a bot's creator can see, and never set a personal chat to public.
Does Janitor AI read your chats?
Your chats are stored on Janitor AI's servers, and its moderators can look at a conversation when a bot or chat is reported or flagged. They aren't routinely read. If you use a proxy for another AI model, that provider receives every message as well.
Can Janitor AI bot creators see your chats?
No. Creators see counts, such as how many chats and messages their bot has had, not what you wrote. A chat only becomes readable by others if you share or publish it.
What shows on my bank statement for an AI girlfriend app?
Only Secrets AI says: S LABS INC. Kupid AI names its payment company, SNB Technologies LTD. The other 13 sites we read don't say, so check the checkout page before you pay.
